天气: 晴朗心情: 平静东南大学的校园不大，贯穿南北东西也就5分钟自行车程，校区的东南角是我们平常上课的地方，一共三栋楼，加上建筑系的系馆，形成一个U字，U字的中间是被十字路分割的四块草坪，整个路网的形状就是一个田字，每当课间时分，田字路上就来来往往的挤满了人。
当年我刚从家乡到南京，被迫开始适应晚上12点睡早上6点起的生活，每天上午的头两节课基本上就是在睡觉中度过，然后醒来、换教室，就这么有点昏的在田字路上走往另一个教室。
田字路上有种奇怪的气息，我也分辨不出来源，或许是旁边的草坪、四周的梧桐，但整个校园里这样的气息别处却没有，某些时候能让有点昏的我更加昏，或者稍微清醒一点。
校园的音乐台在当年似乎特别钟爱辛晓琪，经常在课间广播放她的歌，例如“味道”“俩俩相望”“遗忘”等，而这些歌曲里“遗忘”总是给当年的我一种很异样的感觉。
就这样，独特的气息、田字路、遗忘这三者就这样的形成了一个整体，直接的印在了我的感官里，成为了大学给我的留下的记忆之一。
最近一次走在田字路上已经不记得是什么时候了，只记得当时已经毕业了，并且那熟悉的味道依然还在。
物是人非。物似人非。
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天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴外语中高级口译考试报名点汇总

口译考试办公室浦东东方路121号（后门钱仓路400号） 电话:50811622 [笔试报名点] 二工大成人与继续教育学院陕西北路80号 电话:62534086 [笔试报名点] 上海外国语大学继续教育学院大连西路550号 电话:65422405 [笔试、口试报名点] 上海交大外语学院华山路1954号（西大楼414室）电话:62932471 [笔试报名点] PCEC明天学院国权路580弄1号（复旦大学步行街）电话:55664355 [笔试报名点] 松江大学城松江大学城-上海对外贸易学院C楼(学院楼)108室电话：67703141 [笔试报名点] 南京

南京金陵国际语言进修学院地址南京市长江路262号；电话：025-84523074[笔试、口试报名点；笔试及英语口试在当地考] 宁波
宁波市人事考试中心地址宁波市柳汀街557号；电话：0574-87143072[笔试、口试报名点；笔试及英语中级口试在当地考，其余口试在上海考] 杭州
杭州市人事考试中心地址杭州市文晖路97号；电话：0571-85456079[笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 苏州
苏州大学外国语学院地址苏州市干将东路333号苏州大学理工大楼619室； 电话：0512-65112318[笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 青岛
青岛大学师范学院地址青岛市青大一路16号电话：0532-85957097 [笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 武汉
湖北楚才考试服务有限公司地址：武汉市东湖路147号（湖北省教育考试院） 电话：027—68880352，68880353，86772359。[笔试、口试报名点；笔试、口试在湖北省教育考试院考。] 武汉华英口译培训学校地址：武汉洪山路2号湖北科教大厦A座1507室　电话：027－87121241，027－87121291 [笔试报名点；笔试在湖北省教育考试院考] 深圳
深圳市新世界文化发展有限公司地址深圳市深南中路新闻大厦2号楼705室； 电话：0755-26339080[笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 烟台
烟台师范学院外国语学院地址烟台市芝罘区世学路184号10号楼109室；电话：0535-6681098、 6681283[笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 南昌
南昌大学外国语学院地址南昌市南京东路235号；电话：0791-8304591[笔试、口试报名点；笔试在当地考，口试到上海考] 网上报名：www.shwyky.net网上报名者须在上海地区考试[笔试报名] 报名时间：每年6月20-26日，12月20日-26日。 收起阅读 »

天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴　讨一个上海中等条件的老婆的成本！
　　男人长到一定的年龄要讨老婆是一个古今中外不变的社会问题。
　　发展到今天，讨老婆已经不仅仅是为了繁衍后代，养儿防老的需要了，而是演变成为一项体现自身价值，获得社会认同，决定阶级层次的重大决策行为。










　　目前，以上海为例，要讨一个老婆，没有一定的物质基础是很难办到的。结婚需要房子，上海女孩一般不愿和父母住一块，那么另购一套婚房是每一个上海男人首先需要完成的一项工作，而买房理所当然的是由男方解决，下面我以讨一个条件在中上(学历大专以上、身材相貌较好、有稳定的工作)的上海老婆为例，粗略计算一下各项成本：
　　1、房屋一套(100平以上，市区)，以均价10000元计，10000×100＝100W。
　　2、装修，以中等装修，100平算，计15W。
　　3、家电及家俱，计10W(有部分女方以嫁妆形式出资承担)。 m
　　4、轿车，以普通代步车为标准，计10W。也有部分通情达理的杭州女孩同意以电动车作为替代品，计1500元。
　　5、办喜酒，以中等酒店(喜乐的档次)25桌，包括自带酒、烟、糖，计1000×25＝2.5W，回收红包以每桌平均1200元，计1200×25＝3W，盈利0.5W。
　　6、渡蜜月，以港澳、新马泰、云南、海南为主要出行地，平均每人费用以6000为标准，计6000×2＝1.2W。
　　7、从泡妞到决定结婚这段时间(恋爱期)，包括出去吃饭、买礼物、娱乐、旅游、送女友父母节日礼品等，平均每月以1800元的标准，谈2年，计1800×12×2＝4.32W。
　　综上，各项成本合计100＋15＋10＋10-0.5＋1.2＋4.32＝140.02W。
　　以男方家庭50W的家产，男人年收入6W计，(140.02-50)/6＝15年。最后得出结论为：男方倾家荡产＋男人不吃不喝工作15年＝讨一个上海中上条件的老婆的成本！ 以上仅供各位男士参考，通用于其他城市的老婆 。 收起阅读 »

天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴早想写了~
一直没有合适的时间和心情，今天中午闲来无事儿，呵呵写两笔~
大概是两个月前，我记不太清楚具体时间（人老了，记性很差，总是忘记），在人人乐那边的十字路口上，出现了交警。
介绍下背景先。我刚来惠州那会儿，人人乐是唯一可以逛的一个地方，门口是一条主干道，我想应该是的，整天车水马龙的，破旧的公交汽车冒着黑烟在那里停靠！行人横穿马路-在车流中横穿，那是常景，很多人聚集在一起，等到人数差不多的时候，某个胆子大的，不要命的带头，大家齐心合力挤过马路！
大概两个月前，马路上设立了栏杆，术语不知道，就是把从人人乐大门通往马路对面的通道堵住了，大家只能走到前面大概10左右的红绿灯那里去横穿马路了，对，就是红绿灯，那个以前一个是个摆设的红绿灯。
人们只能走红绿灯了，所以人们不自觉地随便走红绿灯，估计大家都是色盲，，不管什么时候都畅通无阻！这样，麻烦事情自然多了起来，车，没办法走了，人走着也很危险~
于是，来了两年也没有见过交警的我，终于见到了惠州的交警。而且，一见，就对他们产生了同情！
不知道为什么这里这么多色盲，总是看不清颜色，总是要交警的哨子尖声提醒我们，眼看就要绿灯了，还是有人这样的争分夺秒，仅仅一秒钟也要争个你死我活的架势！
听着交警尖锐的哨音，心里有一丝的蔑视，什么时间不好挤，非要拿自己姓名的时间来拼~
很想不通！
交警每天顶着大太阳，每次琳着毛毛雨，倾盆大雨，不厌其烦地告诉大家：红灯。不能走、绿灯，走吧！
看着他们汗湿的警服，我还在考虑有灯和没有灯的差别！
有点可悲呀~~~

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天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴你是不是重庆人呀！

天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴今天早上还看到了一个外籍教师在上海泡妞的文章（原文叫做“猎艳”），一个周末人家跑了5、6个，还在国外网站上用英文大肆宣扬，使用了极其龌龊的词语。。。极端对上海和中国女人以及包括男人进行诬蔑、侮辱性的评论。。。
有的是MSN上认识的，有的是自己的学生，有的则是酒吧里面认识的所谓的美女，有包括已婚的少妇（有妇之夫）。。。
后来被上海一个专门研究国外文学的社会学家发现，思前想后翻译成为中文组织进行反讨这种没有人性的和人格的所谓的外籍教师！引起了很多国外华侨的强烈反响！

终于找到了！！！





Sex and Shanghai In Chinese, 欲望上海中文版





Tuesday, September 05, 2006

所谓的行为艺术是个借口


自称是"欲望上海"博主的Chinabounder发给美联社记者一封邮件。邮件自曝，这个博客（欲望上海）其实是一个恶作剧。"这些文章是我们5个行为艺术家所作，成员包括1个英国小伙子、1个澳大利亚女子、2个中国小伙子和1个日本女子，我们写这个博客的目的是要调查。我们有计划地将让别人看我们的博客，并观察这些人的反应……我们想调查现代中国到底改变了多少。"
我认为这个说法是事后的托词. 因为blogger.com在八月以前在中国一直无法登陆 . 而Chinabounder在5月份就已经有了. 如果他们真的想试验,就应该选一个没有被国内查封的网站做博客. 而且更不应该在试验刚开始的阶段就把网站关闭了.

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Thursday, August 31, 2006

转载ChinaBounder的日记

因为ChinaBounder的日记最近被关闭了， 为了避免流言和对他日记的误解，我暂时把他日记中的所以帖子转载出来(缺最后2篇)。当然这涉及了版权问题。特此声明所有Labeled "CB Diary" 的帖子中的英文部分转载自 chinabounder.blogspot.com

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不要被误导

ChinaBounder 在自己的日记里提到他的名字是Brian。现在很多人在上海寻找叫Brian的外教。可是请注意，这个很可能是一个误导，那个其实不是他的真名。请大家在没有确切证据前不要伤害任何人。

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Tuesday, August 29, 2006


If you think that Chinabounder sucks, and want more people to know about him;if you think ChinaBounder wrote what actually happened in Shanghai and China, and hope more people to be aware of it;translate those dirty diaries into Chinese,and send it to chinabounder.chinese@gmail.com We will post it overhttp://chinabounderinchinese.b ... lp.s. Those diaries revealing CB's racism will have the priority in translation.

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Sunday, August 27, 2006

Sweetie Continued

Thursday, June 22, 2006The first fuck is usually the best; it is diminishing returns after that. So, with Sweetie, that first time lasted an hour or so; and, being the first fuck, it was the most exciting – and so I nearly came a couple of times before I was ready. But, champion masturbator that I am, a brief pause was enough to restore control.This is an important point of honor, especially the first time. After all, I wish to do all I can to highlight the difference between my lovemaking and that of the average local guy; he (from what numerous women have told me) can’t last more than a few minutes. Indeed, among my various lovers, Ellen (whom I have yet to describe), as we rested together after making love, made me laugh with her tales of the over-excitable guys she’d been with.But the first time needs some balance; it cannot last too long since, in general, the woman will become sore, not being used to the larger size Western cock. I do not mean to boast about the size of my cock (though it is vastly flattering (and pleasingly frequent) when a new woman says `Wow, it’s so big) – it’s rather that Western guys routinely are bigger than Chinese guys.Now once I had found my rhythm, found the ideal stroke and ideal state of mind, I could have ploughed away all night. But Sweetie was getting a little pained with it, so I said that perhaps we should conclude. ‘You can control it?’ she asked, in some surprise.She wanted me to wear a condom to come. Yeah, yeah, sure I should have been wearing one already. And I was perfectly happy to do so, though I made a joke about it – `.. you will have to put it on for me.’ And so she did, with her mouth, which was rather good.The key reason I do not often wear a condom – apart from pure, naked selfishness and profligacy, I mean – is that Chinese condoms are just too small.Again this is not a by-proxy boast about my cock size. For example, Mona’s other Western lover, the guy who I heard being gossiped about in a restaurant but have never met, also had this problem; indeed, I spent a jolly afternoon with Mona trying to find decent sized condoms for her to use with him. She liked him to use a condom when they fucked, but he did not like to. With fine hypocrisy I told her this meant he was a turd. (Though then I laughed and added, `But I am being hypocritical, I did not use one with you either, did I?). He told her the local condoms were too small; that was why she wanted my help to find larger ones.So first of all we went to the medical center in the Portman; no luck there. Then a conversation with a Durex rep by the condom rack in a Watson’s, also to no luck. Mona was a little shy about this so I did all the talking (and indeed as I did so the customers in the area skulked away, embarrassed). The rep told me this was a frequent problem with Western guys, and that as far as she knew nowhere in the city sold a bigger size. But, she said, foreign guys said such and such a line of Durex was the least bad fit; and so we bought a few packets of those.Anyhow, back to Sweetie and her mouth. The condom being too small, it first of all threatened to come off, sitting as it was on my helmet like – well – a helmet -- so I had to pull it further down me, making it yet more tight, and thus constricting me, reducing feeling and making it rather tougher to come, meaning I had to pump her pretty hard and fast, which began to exacerbate her discomfort. But come I did, covered in sweat and roaring.Yeah, it was a pretty good fuck, and she’s a pretty good lover – though her oral technique could do with some improvement. Post-fuck rest, she asked me, `How many times do you think I came?’ I had little idea, it being hard to tell among all the various cries, some of pain, some of pleasure. But ever the vain male, I said `Three, four?’ It was two, she said - -`but then some women never come at all’ she added. So two was ok.As it was still relatively early in the evening, she wanted to go get a drink, so we did; and as we drank she chain-smoked and played with her PS2, or Gameboy, or whatever it was.She’s a slightly unusual woman, nervous, jumpy, twitchy; smokes too much, is, I would guess, at heart rather insecure; and given we went back to my place after the bar and fucked some more, this could have spelled a future problem. Having fucked her a couple of times I was more or less done. And while she did at that time have a boyfriend, I was a little wary lest she wanted to make that night any more than the fling it was. Certainly, given that the boyfriend was, from what she said, the dull, dependable, decent type, barely an ounce of passion but reliable, sensible, and thoroughly Chinese, this was rather a risk.But even so, the next day I idly flirted via sms message, sexy messages at that, in part to test how far I could go. It was unwise, and might have made her think the fling could be more permanent. But I did it anyway; I did it because I could.She wanted to know more sex talk, so I told her some. At first she misunderstood `giving head.’ Does it mean `sper on the head?’ she wondered. `I do not like that,’ she said.I replied that no, it did not mean coming on her face, and that to do so was disrespectful to a woman; instead it meant the mouth on each other. Now coming on the face is of course a form of humiliation for the woman, a form a control, of belittling. Naturally it is also a turn on I would like to try. The fact she had an active enough mind to mistake my meaning that way was promising. There are some women I have been with who could barely even imagine such a thing. But she knew all about it, and even if she was not keen on it, it still showed she had a sexy mind.All in all it was a pretty good, sexy fuck, with a sexy, willing woman. She had to work the day after, leaving my place around 8am, wearing, to her slight embarrassment, the same clothes she’d worn yesterday (`My Japanese bosses will notice’ she said. Yeah, I have a few horror stories to tell about the way some Japanese guys treat women).I lent her a clean pair of my briefs and, later that day, found – to my pleasure – she’d left her panties behind. The scent on them was strong, since she was pretty highly aroused when I undressed her. Naturally, I wore them to bed the night after; and I even told her this by sms, to gauge her. She seemed to quite like it. Yeah, she had a sexy, dirty mind for sure.

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Does No mean No?

Monday, June 19, 2006And so together Ceecee and I looked for a cab. The last year or so it’s been hard to find a cab in the city and in general this causes curses in me. But tonight I was grateful for it, since it meant I could linger longer. Huaihai Road was lined with ones and twos of people scanning back and forth for cabs, perking up at seeing a vacant light, only to see someone else get the cab, or a fresh passenger in it already and the flag not yet dropped. `We won’t get a cab here’ I said, and steered us off down a sidestreet, my arm round her waist. We walked for ten minutes before finding a cab, chatting easily enough but getting interrupted by messages from her supine maggot guy. When we did find a cab he switched from messages to calls, none of which she answered.She was slightly tense now, for she had a good idea of what was coming. ‘Why are you tense?’ I said.‘I’m not’ was her first reply.‘You are, you’re nervous’ I said. ‘Don’t be’ and put my arm round her, pulled her to me. She lay against my side, but still uneasy. ‘What is it?’ I said. ‘Is it because you think I want to kiss you? But I do…you are so very beautiful.’ And so I leaned over to kiss her. She squirmed a little, said she did not want to kiss – but half-returned my kiss even as she spoke; her No was not a real No.Now of course this is a dangerous way for a guy to begin to think, that No means Yes. And indeed it’s not usually that simple; No can mean Maybe, ‘Maybe, but I don’t want to appear easy,’ ‘Maybe, but my culture teaches me to be shy of sex.’‘No means No’ is just too much of a simplification. It is more about tone, body language, implication. No in a certain style, certain tone most surely does mean No; but there are a dozen ways to say No, and a dozen shades of meaning.Ceecee’s No was the same as Tingting’s No, Tingting whose No took an hour to turn into Yes. And when it did, what a yes! She was (as I said below) a fine lover, and she may be back in my life (or my bed at least) for she sent me a warm email the other day to tell me she has now finished her PhD studies and is about to embark on the next stage of her life, a posting to a hospital in a nearby city. I hope to see her at least once before she goes, for I have fine memories of her body, her passion. That smooth belly, lithe legs, those deep liquid eyes…Ceecee’s No was `No, not tonight… but maybe next time.’ And her half-response to that first kiss suggested to me that her No might have become a Yes had not this clod been persistently calling; there is no way to woo when you’re sharing the cab with a whacko. The simple expedient of switching her phone off was no option, for her parents, like so many in China, are wholly unable to see her as an adult. To them, she is still 12 years old and thus must be reachable at all times. A switched-off phone just causes panic in parents such as these.For example, Adina’s mother; to me Adina is a strong, sexy, confident woman, bold and stylish. To her mother, she’s barely more than a schoolgirl. Adina’s family home is in the city of Nanjing, a couple of hours away from Shanghai.Now Adina used to have this wimpy whingy boyfriend, who indeed I have met (shaken his hand, looked him in the eye and thought `I’m going to take her from you’). He studies in the UK but, poor dear, cannot make a go of it there, and so from time to time comes back to China for some R&R. This, he hides from his parents, and so when he comes he stays in a hotel in the city. On one trip back he and Adina spent 24 hours together and, since she did not want to be disturbed, she shut her phone off. When she turned it back on, she told me it notified her of 40 missed calls, all from her mother, and then beeped and buzzed nonstop as the 60 messages she’d sent arrived. Not only this; the mother had also called relatives in Shanghai and implored them to go to her campus and find out where she was. Nuts.And so Ceecee and I parted, her to her bed and me to mine. As I rode home I followed her with an sms message of my own. 'Wow.. u r the sexiest woman I’ve ever met.. Hope to see you again soon.’ And then, a little later, 'You are not toooo angry with me?..'`一点生气' ('A little angry’)Ohhh… 55555… Well.. maybe if u forgive me we can meet again..’ (The number 5 is pronounced `wu’ in Chinese, and thus is used in sms to express mock-misery)`现在不生气‘ (‘Now I’m not angry’)`So.. if I send you a goodnight kiss.. what will u say?’不可以老师不可以这样 (‘Not good for a teacher, not this way’)呵呵。。 你太厉害。。 我非常不高兴!’ (‘Oh, you’re too fierce, I’m so unhappy’)你为什么不高兴的呀？ (‘Why are you unhappy?’)`因为我很要吻你.. 你太漂亮!’ (‘Because I so wanted to kiss you… you’re so beautiful!’)你一点也不像老师哪有老师说这话的呀？(‘You’re not like a teacher, would a teacher say this?’)`I cant’ help it.. you’re just tooo sexy..’`You kidding’`Kidding? Not at all..you are stunningly sexy..’`Only lovely not sexy’`You are lovely, it’s true.. but you really are one of the most sexy women I’ve met in Shanghai... You're breathtaking....By this time this exchange was over, I’d been home awhile. It occurred to me she did not have my MSN address, so I gave her my private one, for lovers, would-be lovers and family, and a few moments later she added me.Me: hiMe: well... i had a really great evening with u.. u're cool and a lot of fun...Ceecee: really???Me: really, yes, i do mean that... you are funny, confident, clever, and artistic!Ceecee: I never found that!!!!Me: well.. take it from me. it is true!Ceecee: hahaMe: really, i was fascinated to hear u liked jazz and bluesCeecee: why???Ceecee: you too??Me: because most people have rubbish taste..Ceecee: what are you doing now???Me: editing documents for students..Me: and also... i'm thinking of the sexiest woman i've met in aaaages...Ceecee: you working so hardMe: yes, lots to do!Ceecee: you have a lot of friends,studends........why ???mr???Ceecee: why??me???Me: why....Me: i don't knowMe: all i know is that..Me: the first moment u walked i my class...Me: i could hardly take my eyes off uCeecee: I cant find thatMe: i knowMe: i tried really hard to hide itMe: but it is trueMe: and if i showed u what i wrote in my diary after that class, u would beleive me...Ceecee: I saw a lot of sexy lovely clever girl in your class.Me: no. no one as fascinating as uCeecee: In you other classes???Me: no.. not for a looooong time. really!Ceecee: there are many lovely girls........Me: u just blew me away, u really did...Ceecee: you kiding me555555555555Me: the 2nd time u came u had that cute little black and white skirt, and black tights...Ceecee: that's funnyMe: oh, why?Ceecee: you write diary????Me: i doMe: and you are in itMe: several times!Ceecee: can I see my parts?????????Me: ha ha haMe: no!Me: it's a secretMe: but..Ceecee: 5555555555555555555Me: well, let me look and see what i wrote, hang on...Ceecee: enMe: you REALLY wanna see?Ceecee: yesMe: okMe: I got to class to find her not there. I had expected this. But half an hour into the class she turned up.. the door opening slowly and her peeking her head round, knowing I would tease her on it. But I just smiled at her lighthearted entrance and let her go to her seat with little further comment. And then spent the rest of the class, up until the break, trying not to check her out too much.Me: As I called the break I saw her pulling on a scarf. I knew she was going to make a run for it, and I knew she would wait until I left the room so she could escape without my comment.. if I had stayed in the room she might not have had the bottle to go.Me: there's more but that's all i'm going to show u tongihtCeecee: you are a foxMe: ha ha, so now u think i am even more of a bad guy, huh?Ceecee: enMe: :$Ceecee: :@Ceecee: angryMe: ohhhh... why?Ceecee: you hve got the poltMe: polt ? i do not understand...Ceecee: IintrigueMe: ah, i see...Me: r u really angry with me?Ceecee: I dont known up to nowCeecee: yesMe: why r u angry?Ceecee: you let me scared (I’d not expected this; but maybe I should have known better)Me: oh.. gosh..i did not mean to do that!Me: in fact i was jsut teasing u (so I tried to lie my way out of it)Me: i only wrote that before i said i'd send it to u tonight!Ceecee: I'm sorryMe: 不里我！Me: u r sorry?Me: why?Ceecee: I am sad to heat that??Me: i really did not want to scare uMe: but u know u i really did notice u strongly in classCeecee: 555555555555555555555555555555Me: so i hope u will forgive meCeecee: It's reallyCeecee: a kidding??Me: well...Me: ok, i do really remember all that happeningMe: but i just wrote if for u tongiht to tease u a littleMe: u recall i told u the same thing over dinner!Ceecee: Thank you for everything you did for meCeecee: everything you said i'll believe (and I hope she bought it )Me: oh..Me: that sounds like u'r saying `i'll never see you again'Ceecee: many thanks....I like the time with youCeecee: It's the truthMe: but...Me: will u agree to see me again?Ceecee: you want to see me again???Me: oh i do, yesMe: yes yes yes!Me: but...Me: will u agree?Ceecee: enMe: that makes me happy! u r great companyMe: next time i wanna take u to the great art gallery i told u about. you'll like it a lotCeecee: yeahCeecee: It's too lateCeecee: I want to go to bedCeecee: today I'm so tiredMe: sleep wellCeecee: 88Me: i had fun tongiht!Me: 88And she was indeed not too angry with me, for we have met several times since. I took her to the art colony I spoke of, a wonderful collection of independent artists and galleries, meeting and chatting to various of the artists I know there; and I took her to the Armani fashion retrospective at the Art Museum; and, next week, will meet her again for dinner.And herein lies a problem... Having seen her several times, I have begun to see beyond my own primarily sexual reaction to her, and have begun to value her for herself as well. I want to spend time with her just to enjoy her idiosyncratic, refreshing, intelligent company.But will this deeper attraction last beyond taking her to bed?As time shall try…

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Shanghai Sexbomb continued

Friday, June 16, 2006So, getting back to Ceecee, those lovely legs, that flouncy skirt, her stunning beauty…Her arm hooked in mine, we walked along Huaihai Road, left into Maoming Road, strolling its left hand pavement, by the side of the park of the Garden Hotel.There is a reason for this.The Garden Hotel has a lovely park, well tended and clean, old, spreading trees, winding paths under them.When I wish to seduce a woman, I take her (as I have said) to a particular restauraunt around there that I know of, the finest for that purpose in the city. As I walk to the restaurant, I will walk past the garden, and point it out. After dinner, if it is a warm, clear night, I will say `Let’s have a walk in that garden I mentioned, it’s well worth a look.’And indeed it is worth a look. For I have walked in that park on forty different evenings and have never met anyone else in it. Local people, seeing the gate of a hotel, will not go beyond it if they are not a resident of the hotel; and indeed I suspect that the gate guard would stop them if they tried. Much of China runs on one rule for white people and another for the locals. It’s highly offensive, and a curious way for China to choose to run its society.The lack of locals in the park means it is not strewn with spit and litter, as is every other city park; means the trees and plants are able to grow and thrive, rather than being picked, poked and plucked to destruction as they are in other parks; means there are no people pissing in the bushes and hawking up phlegm; means there are no security guards in ill-fitting uniforms prowling; means there are no speakers dismally fashioned into plastic rocks and toads piping out awful, awful, awful music; means there are no bright neon lights to blare anyway any trace of mood left from those speakers’ assault; means there are no kids vandalizing the place as parents look on lovingly; means I can walk with a girl on my arm without being gazed at like some curiosity from beyond the seas, without those same insouciant parents calling to their spoiled progeny, `Look at the foreigner!’Means, in short, with its paths and pools of darkness, with its relative quiet, with its backdrop of the elegant hotel building, that it is the ideal place for the post dinner kiss.Dinner was good and filled me with the hope that I might bed her that night. Our eyes meeting, hands touching, plenty of laughter, easy, free conversation. And she is far from the good-time girl I assumed she was; likes jazz, dances ballet… And is self-aware, too. `People look at me and think I’m the kind of person who just like pop music,’ she said.`I never thought that for a moment’ I lied.Most of the other stuff we talked about I cannot recall – stuff about how she hates university (which is hardly surprising, for someone like her would find its cramped, stifling monotony unbearable) – wants to study abroad.But toward the end of our meal, slow, leisurely, she scotched my hopes by pulling the ol’ parents number on me, Ma and Pa wanting her home by 10pm. Bah.Even so, I was still confident.. were not we paddling hands, touching legs, locking eyes? She liked being with me, was excited, effervescent… this was not a simple brush-off.Dinner done, the weather had changed to a fine rain; so I could not take her for that walk round the park. Instead, we went for coffee. And there again in the coffee bar we sat knee to knee, caresses, her hand on my knee, my hand on her arm...But about this time of the evening, things went a little odd. Not between me and her. She’d been getting SMS messages all evening, but now their constant trickle became a barrage. After she’d dealt with a flurry of them, she gave me an explanation.Since she was 7 years old she’s grown up with this guy. He ‘loves’ her. They had a relationship for a while, but she ended it. He, in the way of this culture, could not accept a No; could not even understand it, simply had no concept of her right to be unpestered. Instead, just like Lucy’s guy, just like Chris’s, he pursued her with this welter of calls and messages, keeping tabs on her every movement. (I have not mentioned Chris yet; she was 19 when I met her, making her my youngest lover to date; I will add that story to the to-do pile.)This guy of Ceecee’s calls her every night to make sure she’s home by ten; and calls her a little later on to `say goodnight’ to her.Sure, I let him have it. Why not? I told her how wholly unacceptable this behavior was, how she should not stand for it, how her life was her choice and so on. As I told her this there was a wash of relief and recognition over her face, as though what I said accorded with a belief she was sure was true yet that no-else seemed to share; as, maybe, when one person who thinks to have spotted a UFO, to the general amused contempt of others, meets a fellow believer.Then the guy called her. I knew it was the guy as soon as she answered up the phone, since she blushed in embarrassment and walked over to the other side of the room to take the call. These signs pleased me; they meant she did not want our tête-à-tête interrupted by this clod, that she knew he was a crass interruption to what we had going. After the call (which she confirmed was indeed from him) she told me that he was living alone here, since his parents were in the US (where he had spent a few years), and that he felt lonely and depressed; and so he could not get to sleep unless each night he called her to say goodnight. The fucking pussy.What he was really doing was quite obvious, so I told her. `Don’t you see? He is trying to control you. He just wants to make sure you are at home. He doesn’t want you to be out having fun, he’s worried you might meet other men. He’s trying to control you. That’s totally wrong.’ Perhaps this had not occurred to her. When I told her, its truth was immediately apparent to her. Now since by making her see what a scumbag this guy is I can incline her more toward me, I continued to let him have it. `Frankly he would not dare try this in America… women there would just not stand for it and he would not even try. You know it’s just because this is China that he does it. He’d never do it to someone in the States. It makes me pretty angry.’And in fact my own fervent desire to fuck her until she yelps aside, this kind of shitty behavior does piss me off pretty good. Guys here can be such scumbags. Not, of course, that I am in any way morally responsible or decent when it comes to women. But at least I’m not the stalker type. Yes, a liar, a cheat, a cad; but I respect each and every woman I’m with. And maybe it was a crude step to bring race into the equation… but it is a racial thing – or, better, a cultural thing which was anyway the terms in which I framed it.Is that a brush I can be tarred with? Possibly. After all, it is my skin color that makes me desirable, that gives me an edge; and I take advantage of that. And though I like to think I do not treat women with the contempt that so many guys here express, maybe I am indeed just as bad, albeit in a different manner. But no; no, and again no. I simply do not treat women with the scorn and cowardice of so many guys in this society.But anyhow; Ceecee felt she had to go home. Yet she’d said she felt that way in the restaurant and had already stayed an hour beyond that. And her claims that `I must go.. let me, go, I must go’ were not much more than words, for I made no move to make her stay beyond saying `Only go if you want to go. Not because he says so. If you want go or if your parents tell you to go home, that’s ok. I’d respect your parents’ wishes, but not his. He has no right to control you like this.’ That’s all I said, and she stayed, our bodies close, her knee finding mine. And indeed in the end I decided to give her her exit --`Well, then, I guess we should go..’

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天气: 阴雨心情: 平静记忆总是一片一片的，不知道是因为我很差的讲故事能力，还是大脑的特殊结构。
2001年第一次来大连，冬天，下雪，很大的雪，于是街上跑起了那些装盐的车，一锹一锹的盐散到路上化雪，雪化了，混着路上的土，脏脏的
晚上去逛当时最热闹的商业街，不记得怎么走的路，只记得路过一个饭店，向外冒着滚滚蒸汽，朋友说：“这是狗不理包子，我们晚饭就吃这个吧……”，最终却没有吃成，至少印象中没有。
所以后来脑子里就有了这一系列的印象，再去天津街，就想着狗不理
前两天偶然走在天津街的附近，正好就看见了狗不理的店，门口古色古香的老招牌，心里盘算着，一定叫个人来吃，好好尝尝
今天就圆了
但只留下了遗憾，不若记忆中的香气
走在店门口就已经感觉不对了，透过玻璃看里面的桌子，就是拉面馆常见的那种，整个店让人一下子想起的是围城里的欧亚大饭店，再看服务员，白白胖胖的粉色衬衫，也让人想起那个饭店里一边喂奶一边给孩子捉虱子的大姐。朋友后面的墙壁是粉白的，棚也是粉白的，那种石灰粉刷的白，它有多白，就反衬出环境有多脏，
饭菜都很贵，包子也是那样的惨白，不象正常面的颜色，皮蛋豆腐上面撒了厚厚的花生米，很奇怪的做法，鱼的味道正常，但也就是三流饭店的质量，肚子也没填饱，就飞也似的逃了……
出门下了雨，记忆中的温馨烟消云散，空留一片惨白，一如元气不在的天津商业街，剩下的只有惨淡经营。

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天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴前几天，得知我中学同窗好友就在南京，所以便马上和我女友跑了趟南京，找到我同学也还真是有点不简单，不过还好没有走多少冤路。我同学下午6点才能回家，我就在夫子庙转了几圈，终于在晚上7点多钟找到我同学。多年未见，突然在异国他乡相相，多年的同窗好友见面，当然高兴异常，晚上在瑜之都吃了晚饭后逛一遍繁华的湖南路，再回住处，当然是免不了一番畅谈。
南京毕竟是一省之首，10朝古都啊！看上去有点古老的感觉，其实在这以前，我也到过三次，那时也只是勿勿路过，那时的感觉是耍破旧，全不是现在的古老的感觉。我想主要还是因为我这次在这里好好逛了两天的原因。
第二天有的是时间，所以不慌不忙的逛起总统府来，也就是孙文先生的临时大总统府，不然，蒋介石也是在这里做的总统，还有太平天国洪秀全。总统府很大，里里外外好几多进，分中、东、西园。看到当年蒋介石当年接见周恩来的地方，唉。。以前历史课本里面觉得有些遥远的事，好象一下子离我好近。
行政完共三层，我特别仔细地看了那道电梯，据说是请外国人安装的，电梯上面的墙上有一个象仪表的，可以左右摆分理处的指针指示楼层，当年蒋介石上班也是坐这电梯上去的。我在想，那老蒋也是懒懒的，才三层楼也不愿走楼梯，要坐电梯。
上到二楼，我特别注意了老蒋当年的办公室，那办公桌很大！我好象还从没看到现代谁的办公桌有那么大！而且最有意思的是那的桌子是斜着摆放的，桌子当窗，但人坐的地方刚地墙后窗帘后，据导游小姐说，之所以这个摆法，是因为蒋介石是个非常怕死的家伙，他怕别人于他办公时从窗口暗害他，所以他人坐的位置当好是墙挡住的，让人看不清他的位置。呵呵。。
上到三楼，有大小两厅，大厅是当年的坐议室，长条形的桌子共放了三条，从上面摆放的杯子来看，当时的参与会议的人是在这窄窄的条桌上面对着坐的。那杯子是蓝色的半透明塑料杯。主席位的后面墙上挂着孙文的照片，两旁是国民党的太阳旗。
看完这些，再下到底楼，看到有总统府人员防空洞？防空洞？？那得去看看，顺着指示，从一小门进去，窄窄地，转着弯往下走，下去子概有5米多深吧，就是防空洞最底下了，里面暗暗的，不是很高，分两排，排着几个空房子，里面什么也没有，空荡荡的，也没什么特别，所以留了一下影，就从另一个出口出来了。
洪秀全那陈列馆倒没什么太多可以看的。所以也就没再看，便出来了。
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我工作的事，今天我哥打电话我，要我把我的资料传给一位他的朋友，说是在龙华富士康有朋友可以推荐推荐。盛意难却，我只好把资料传出去了。 收起阅读 »

余世维成功经理人讲座（南京邮电版）★为什么要学习本课程在中国与世界用同一规则共享市场的今天，企业的经营管理者——职业经理人面对的是更加严酷的挑战。无论是已取得不菲业绩的“成功”经理人，还是刚走出困境的创业经理人，均会碰到一些问题或困惑，从研究自身错误入手，改进经营策略，进一步提高生产力，无疑是有效提升企业竞争实力的有力手段。《职业经理人常犯的11种错误》这一课程将引领您从“传统经理人的迷失”中走出，协助您完成从成功到卓越的职业生涯过程。 ●主讲：余世维（著名跨国公司职业经理人，哈佛大学企业管理博士后 ）北京时代光华教育发展有限公司特聘高级培训师，哈佛大学企业管理博士后，牛津大学国际经济博士后，美国诺瓦大学公共决策博士。现任上海慧泉企业管理咨询有限公司董事、总经理，美国富顿集团中国总经理。曾服务的客户有：日本航空、飞利浦、柯达、联合利华、ABB、三得利、3M、西门子、摩托罗拉、中国电信等国内外著名企业。●教材目录第一讲 拒绝承担个人责任　 1． 引言　 2． 有效的管理者，为事情的结果负责　 3． “努力的表现”与“不停的辩解”　 4． 观察你自己，别光是观察市场/管区/办公室/人手第二讲 未能启发工作人员　 1． 引言　 2． 离开办公室一天，不会引发混乱　 3． 主管需要“少不了他们”的感觉　 4． 未能自己训练员工，提升其绩效　 5． 调职、退休、死亡也不应使公司瘫痪第三讲 只重结果 忽视思想　 1． 引言　 2． 成功者与不成功者之间的差别　 3． 思想在启发，不再教条　 4． 想法g触动g行为g习惯第四讲 在公司内部形成对立　 1． 引言　 2． 谈到自己公司时，只有一个代名词　 3． 接电话的人或被询问的人， 就是要解决问题的人第五讲 一视同仁的管理方式　 1． 一把钥匙开一把锁　 2． X-Y-Z理论与Fidler的权变观点第六讲 忘了公司的命脉：利润　 1． 利润是企业的命脉　 2． 管理的主要目的　 3． 世界500强年年换名第七讲 只见问题 不看目标　 1． 只注意小处或问题，会丧失创造力　 2． 80%与20%　 3． 勿忘短、中、长期目标第八讲 不当老板 只做哥们　 1． 好兄弟与经理人的成功混合体并不存在　 2． 别在员工面前作践自己　 3． 跟手下在一起就是专业，就是公事第九讲 未能设定标准　 1． 完善的公司一定会有既定的政策　 2． 何谓“标准”　 3． 追求“标准”变成原动力第十讲 纵容能力不足的人　 1． 引言　 2． 管理≠比赛谁最受欢迎　 3． 留住拒绝学习的人，对团体有欠公平　 4． 怕别人超越自己，只好互相包庇　 5． 别在办公室里寻爱，别当老好人， 别怕面对他人第十一讲 眼中只有超级巨星　 1． 中等资质的人加少数超级巨星　 2． 顶尖高手的弊端 价格: 150地区: 广东 东莞 收起阅读 »

深圳社保——杀人不眨眼式的抢钱！


　　2006年7月26日深圳市第四届人民代表大会常务委员会第七次会议的“人大代表们”通过了一条新的养老保险条例，这是一个劫贫济富的条例，是一个持强凌弱的条例、这是一个欺负弱者的条例，这是一个赤裸裸　榨外来工的条例，这是引起广大外来工极大愤概的条例、这是一个严重背离党的思想的条例，先看看新旧条例比较：


　　以前旧条例：企业缴纳8%，个人缴纳5%。员工个人账户为缴费工资的11%，剩余的2%计入共济基金；


　　现在新条例：企业缴纳10%，个人缴纳8%，员工个人账户为缴费工资的8%，剩余的10%计入共济基金。


　　特点：新政策不但提高了个人缴纳费用，个人账户全部由个人缴费，而且企业缴纳10%全部计入共济基金，一分钱都不计入员工个人帐户（旧条例计6%入员工个人帐户，6%+5%=11%员工个人帐户）这完全是杀人不眨眼式的抢钱！！！！！！


　　旧条例退保时：员工交多得多，交少得少，员工个人完全无意见，


　　新条例退保时：无论员工交多交少,未退休而退保时只能得回自已所交的费用，企业因为员工买养老而缴费的工资10%全部被剥夺去养某些人了（以前企业交缴费工资的8%其中的6%是划入员工个人帐户的）。


　　旧条例：无论工资低得如何，一律规定最低缴费工资是1597元/月，


　　新条例：以实际工资作缴费工资。


　　这一项变化没意见，是正确的、实事求是的。但是这些表面上减轻每月工资在1597元以下的员工（和企业）负担的作法掩盖不了　榨员工的事实，请问凭什么要剥夺本来由企业来缴交而划归员工个人帐户的费用(6%)？？？？？


　　旧条例：企业缴交缴费工资的8%，其中6%划入员工个人帐户，另2%划归共济金。


　　新条例：企业缴交缴费工资的10%，其中其中一分钱都不划入员工个人帐户，全部划入共济金。


　　新条例以非本市户籍员工（外来工）退休时可领到一次性生活费来掩盖它们剥夺本来由企来缴交而划归员工个人帐户费用的行径。这简直是愚民政策！！！！！


　　那些所谓的人大代表和决策者们都不调查调查：深圳的打工者们有多少人真正能干到60岁等拿养老金？有多少外来工可以在深圳可以买满15年保险,可以做到退休!!!


　　先粗略计算一下：


　　深圳700万外来工参保: 就按企业每个月平均给每个员工交100 社保计:企业1个月所交的保费: 7,000,000 *100 = 700,000,000 呵呵,这样一个月就能收7亿，一年就80多亿哦!!!!!这80多亿本来是外来劳务工的，现在全部被纳入深圳政府去养哪些深圳户退休人员了！！


　　众所周知，我国职工个人养老账户一直在空转，截至2004年底，中国养老保险个人账户空账规模累计已达7400亿元，而且每年还会以1000多亿元的速度增加。国家此次拟对个人养老缴费基本制度“大动干戈”，就是为了填补这一巨大窟窿。问题是，这一拆东补西、损私肥公的做法，不要说帕累托最优，连次优选择都谈不上。依笔者之见，这实在是个孬主意。


　　目前我国7000多亿个人养老账户资金被“挪用”，与当初的制度设计绝对脱不了干系。在计划经济体制下，职工的养老保险、退休是由单位和国家包下来的，到我国开始建设养老保险制度时，已退休老职工和新制度实施前参加工作的职工都没有个人账户的积累，那么他们的养老钱从何而来？在当前我国养老保险缺乏雄厚资金积累的情况下，这个任务顺理成章地落到了在职职工肩上。随着人口老龄化和提前退休等原因，用现在人的钱支付上一代人的养老金的现象也就日益严重，这样个人账户的空账运行就变本加厉。


　　因为政策的原因，现有职工再次成了社会转型成本的买单者，他们的福利被变相剥夺，因为养老账户空转并不是他们的错。更让人担心的是，此种涉及社会保障的一个基本性制度变革，到底有没有经过深思熟虑？有没有经过充分论证？是属于脑筋急转弯还是因为某些学者的闭门造车？应该说我国的公共选择制度正逐步迈向成熟，大到水电煤气，小到一张景点的门票，基本都要举行听证，以示对全体公民福利的尊重。同个人所得税调整一样，个人养老账户同样关乎到几亿人民的利益，有关部门说调就调，说调多少就调多少，这到底有何依据？是否存在程序上的不当？


　　这是继医改/教改后, 又一个让老百姓痛心的“改革”！失望!单位交的钱凭什么被国家100% 统筹, 亏空8000亿了，就把企业交纳的16%全卷走了, 国家公务员以前不缴纳养老保险，现在很少缴纳，企业缴纳几乎全部的养老保险，现在出现亏空，却要企业来承担.蛮不讲理的霸王条款, 为什么不从精减社保管理人员队伍，加强社保基金管理方面减少损失，而由参保人员独自承担，太不公平了。这么大的事不进行民意调查. 哪天来一个：退休人员自谋生路，减轻国家负担！


　　既然个人帐户只有自己交的钱.请给我一个继续交的理由.我为什么不自己保管.自己存到银行. 我自已的钱，我自已保管还放心，要社保局干什么，这个浪费纳税人钱的机构.看来只有喝清汤粥了!


　　房改是把你的腰包掏空，教改是将二老逼疯，医改是提前为你送终, 现在社改是让你老了喝西北风！！！


　　（转自网络新闻：http://www.tianya.cn/new/techfor ... amp;idArticle=44771） 收起阅读 »

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天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴全国一盘棋,上海是风向标.
乐观的估计，房价的下跌将不可以避免,近段时间可以搬凳子看戏了.
人民币不会大幅升值,应该最多在3%以内,中国顶死不升值，或者慢慢升，让热钱先顶不住从那来回那去。
利息上升空间也不会大。
股市继续走好，未来会发行大量的优质大盘股，海外的优质公司都要回国内上市，只有好公司才能让股民赚钱，当然股市的问题还很多，需要改革的地方不少。

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一进教室,就和同事嘀咕,参加培训的这些人中不知有没有6SQ会员,呵呵!

今天厦门市举办质量工程师继续教育课程,你参加了吗?

我第三次来到了杭州。
第一次是2000年末，因为第二年就要毕业了，所以到杭州人才市场找工作，初到杭州，印象最深的一个字就是：冷，可能那一年是最近几年杭州最冷的冬天，上午在人才市场溜达了一圈，下午便急匆匆的赶往火车站回家过年了，那时候，回家比找工作重要。为此我浪费了杭州一家公司的面试。
第二次是今年的7月，新工作面试，和老婆顺便游览了西湖的苏堤，觉得很累，由于日程比较紧张，所以急匆匆的又走了。
现在我终于来到了杭州，昨天老婆说，你还是先熟悉一下杭州的街道吧，并给了我一个“清河坊”的关键词，我查找了一下地图，在西湖新十景“吴山天风”的附近，于是今天上路了。
坦白的说，在杭州的这几天，杭州给我的印象是桂花飘香，本来我在山水如画的桂林读了4年书，故名思义，桂林－－－就是桂花树成林，可是我在那四年对桂花没有很深的体会，也许那时候是冲动和浮躁的年代，对于这种极端抽象意义的象征的东西不是很感兴趣，所以并没有多大的感觉，但是今年到了杭州，我被桂花的味道所打动，金秋十月，丹桂飘香。。。。。。。。。。

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天气: 阴雨心情: 平静深圳,小别几日.
希望回来后我会对你更热爱.
桂林,欢迎我们吧.......................

天气: 晴朗
心情: 高兴
我的第一次上海之旅，是今年9月底到上海公干。从大连出发，一路看到了从玉米田到水稻田、池塘的变化，经历了24小时的火车行，终于到了上海。(老板叩门，不让坐飞机)。
刚到上海时，第一感觉就是人特别特别多，可能是因为从火车站出来的缘故，然后去了国际会展中心，那里有非常非常多的老外，那时候才理解为什么说上海是国际大都市，在展厅里，还遭遇到一个意大利人用英语和我聊天，由于英语水平不高，只得应付几句就落荒而逃，不过，那位男士的确很帅。
为了节省开支，又因为地形不熟而不敢擅自打车，所以，出外办事，除了做朋友的车，就只得坐公交车了，而事实上，我也只坐了一次公交车。为方便起见，我是从火车站坐车到要去的地方，可能那个地方有点偏僻，打电话问朋友，也不知道坐几路车，无奈之下，去买了张地图，可是也只是找到了哪路车没找到哪个车站，实在不愿意找了， 就随口问了一下卖地图的老伯，没想到，他的回答是：“给我2元钱，我就告诉你！”真晕呢！
外滩，虽然黄浦江有点脏，不过，夜景还是不错的，可是称不上美丽，只能说是繁华，因为，总是少了点自然气息。
到了上海，看到行色匆匆的路人，拥挤的交通，真的充分感受了上海的快节奏，不过，我却不适应，总是想着，如果我在这里工作生活，会不会老的更快？对了，还要考虑到那满眼的高楼大厦，和满耳的高房价。
但愿上海人都能活的快乐、优雅，我就老老实实，做我的小城市人吧！或者有一天，也可以有资本到上海闯一下。 收起阅读 »

天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴国庆长假随老婆回家去看老丈人,老丈母娘.说实话,有时候去苏州也是一件让我比较头痛的事,虽然与老婆已认识有4年多了,但到现在苏州话还是听不懂,所以吃饭聊天的时候如果不是事先知道话题我就不知道大家在说什么，呆呆傻傻的，感觉很无趣。于是吃饭的时候就闷头吃，聊天的时候就要找老婆做翻译，有时候还不好意思直接问大家在聊什么，于是还不得不用english来问老婆，搞得很没face。当然，让我感觉比较自豪的是，只要事先知道话题，我大概还是能听出个八九不离十的。 收起阅读 »

天气: 晴朗心情: 高兴今天公司一早就召集全体员工开会,公布明年3月份要把工厂搬到苏州去了.
很突然,在考虑要不要去呢.

天气: 大风心情: 高兴江西真美!
上周参加了深圳举办的国际高新技术博览会,呵呵 发现几个大字"江西人民欢迎你"还有江西的洪都摩托
感觉就像回到了三年前在长沙赶集时的情景,人山人海啊,深圳啊,这个繁华的都市,这10几年的变化真大,我也一样,受不了大千世界的诱惑.
然而工作两年之后的感想又是什么呢? 大家不言而愈,试问我还在城市呆多久呢?
真的是前途渺茫哦!在深圳我看不到任何的希望

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天气: 晴朗心情: 郁闷双体，为我弟的一些事放不下，所以打算来东莞一趟。
到了东莞，还是和我两年前来的时候一样，
三上字形容：脏、乱、差
和深圳没法比，相差一大截。
我还是喜欢深圳的环境，给人感觉舒服，环境也好，大部分人的素质都还可以。只是有种压郁的感觉，不过这样也好，有压力才会有动力吗！
来东莞，只是为我弟的事来，可是到这了这里，我和他谈心的时候，他好生气的对我说，：叫我不要说了，说的他好烦。
我很生气，我大老远跑来，就是为了帮他想办法解决，他说他自已解决，不要说了，说的他好烦。
我不知道是不是我管的太多了，但是我只是想让他不要走太多的弯路而以。
而且这事确实很麻烦。
昨天在博客里面看到一篇文章，写着，你懂什么是爱情吗？
是啊，我也不懂，我怎么能去对别人的爱情去说这说那呢？
而且现在的社会：是啊，什么是爱情啊？
我弟的事，我不知道该怎么去入手做，我是不是真该让他们自已解决呢？
家里的想法，弟的想法，他朋友的想法。我的想法呢（我的并不重要）
重要的是我弟的想法，他到底是怎么想的我不清楚。
家里也在为他的事烦。
我更不知道是不是家里不对。他还小，为他的事烦什么，是不是我永远也不能体会到父母的心了。
很多事情都和家里人的想法无法相同。
我到底错了没有。
还是真的一代和一代的隔阂太大吗？
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天气: 晴朗心情: 平静北京自助游攻略
北京位于华北平原的北端，是中华人民共和国的首都。全市面积16808平方公里，海拔高度43.5米，人口约1200万。北京市管辖10区8县，其中二环路以内的东城区、西城区、崇文区和宣武区是传统上的内城区。 　　北京具有非常悠久的历史，其城市历史可追朔到3000年前。在春秋战国时期(公元前770年－公元前221年)，燕国就在北京地区建立都城，名叫“蓟”。秦、汉和三国时期，北京地区是中国北方重镇。西汉末年，王莽在北京地区建立了大燕国，北京的别称“燕京”由此而来。南宋时期，金正式建都于北京。从此以后的元朝、明朝和清朝的都城均建立在北京，先后共有34位皇帝择京定都。悠久的历史给北京留下了大量的文物古迹和丰富多彩的人文景观，宏伟的万里长城和规模庞大的紫禁城闻名世界；颐和园、北海、香山、天坛等皇家园林的优美景致和瑰丽建筑使游人们流连忘返。 北京自助游线路安排：线路1：天安门广场，故宫，景山，北海，恭王府，什刹海（恭王府，郭沫若故居，宋庆龄故居） 提示： 1。什刹海周围景点丰富，前面少用时间后面就可以玩的更有选择性。 2。故宫应以中路为主，如以前去过，再次去可以边路的各藏馆为主。 3。先去景山，由前门入由前门出，随后沿路向西走由南门入北海，由北海后门出，到达什刹海。 4。天安门广场东南侧有北京市城市规划展览馆，感兴趣的可以去看看。 线路2：建外SOHU，国贸，秀水街，建国门，王府井，新华门，西单 提示： 1。此线路为长安街沿线，可步行，如乘公交可乘1路依次到达上述各处 2。建外SOHO和国贸位于东三环与长安街路口，是新北京的代表，国贸里都是国际大牌商品，相当与上海的南京西路，建外SOHU适合闲逛，氛围一流。 3。秀水街是个有名气的市场，可以买到便宜的盗版大牌，如选择坐公交在“永安里”站下，下车就是。 4。新华门就是中南海的正门了，可以照照相，不喜欢的略过即可。 线路3：和平门，琉璃厂，东交民巷，崇文门外，天坛，王府井 提示： 1。琉璃厂是古玩字画聚集地，乘地铁和平门下，向南步行5分钟即到。 2。乘地铁前门下，看见毛主席纪念堂东侧对着的胡同没，进去就是东交民巷，这里是中国最早的使馆区，外国风格建筑较多。 3。由东交民巷步行至崇文门内大街，沿街向南步行5分钟到达崇文门，再乘814路公交直达天坛南门，买联票不要买门票，不然你想看的东西统统看不到，只是能进个门儿而已。 4。结束天坛游览后可由天坛西门出，乘坐110路东单下，沿长安街西行5分钟到达王府井。 线路4：北大，圆明园，颐和园，中关村 提示 1。乘坐地铁1线公主坟站下，乘坐公交332支线（注意是“支”线）可依次到达北大，圆明园，颐和园游览。2。在颐和园北门乘坐运通106路海淀站下可到达中关村核心区，想购买电子产品的可去中关村逛逛，如无此打算就在颐和园和圆明园多玩会吧。 3。圆明园黄昏时分游览极佳。 4。中关村乘坐运通106路西直门站下可以倒地铁。如没去中关村，其他3地可乘坐332支路返回公主坟倒地铁。 线路5：前门，大栅栏，十三陵（游1） 提示： 1。乘坐地铁前门站下沿前门大街南行5分钟即到大栅栏。老字号较多。 2。正午前结束大栅栏游览（越早越好），在前门东北角乘坐“游1”路直达十三陵。 3。十三陵只游览定陵和长陵即可，前者以地宫闻名，后者建筑完整而雄伟。 线路6：雍和宫，孔庙，国子监，地坛公园 提示 1。乘坐地铁雍和宫站下即到雍和宫。 2。结束雍和宫游览沿雍和宫街西侧的成贤街步行可依次到达孔庙和国子监。门票很便宜。 3。沿雍和宫街往北过北二环马路即到地坛公园。老实说地坛没什么可看的，放松下心情吧。读过“我与地坛”这篇名文么？ 4。出地坛公园南门就可以乘坐地铁了（雍和宫站）。 线路7：八达岭（司马台）——游1（游12） 提示：前门乘坐“游1”路即到八达岭。没什么好提示的，早点出发，鞋穿舒服点吧，毕竟要爬高~ 线路8（推荐深秋时去，11月前后）：香山，植物园 提示： 1。地铁苹果圆站下，出地铁乘坐318路公交到达香山。 2。鞋穿适合爬山的鞋，选择南路上山（北路又累又没好景色），中路下山。入园前买份导游图，对景点了如指掌。 3。植物园就是香山邻居~~实在是很好找，实在找不到，问问路吧~~植物园的大温室是园内精华所在，票价让人咋舌，但绝对值得进。 总体提示： 1。交通：尽量早点出发，别睡懒觉了，毕竟是出来玩的，时间要好好把握不能浪费呀。万一赶了上班的高峰时段，交通的拥堵绝对让人欲哭无泪。 2。天气：这要看运气了，如果这一天有雾，像颐和园啊香山啊这样的地方就改天再去吧，走走商业区什么的。千万不能让天气坏了游玩的心情。 3。根据实际情况做出合理取舍，是旅游的至高境界，万万不可哪都想去，最后弄得身体过分疲惫。北京城永远摆在那，没去的地方，下次还可以补上。 4。不可上那些不正规的旅游车，一般都是一个老女人或者老男人在那拉人坐车，说去那那，最后把你拉到其他的无聊地点，还要很多的钱。 收起阅读 »

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[转贴]已经不再是猜想：武汉市将更名为“可口可乐市”有一个美国富豪，前往梵蒂冈拜会天主教教皇。两人在罗马教庭的花园中散步、密谈，另有一枢机主教随侍在侧。这位美国富豪非常富有诚意地要捐出一大笔巨款，给教会做慈善之用，但教皇始终皱着眉头，不愿意答应。“捐100万美元好不好？”“不行！”“2000万美元，好吗？”富翁再说。教皇还是摇摇头。“5000万美元如何？”教皇依然不愿松口，不肯答应。几分钟后美国富豪很大方地再度请求：“这样吧，我捐1亿美元，可以吗？”教皇似乎有些心动，但仍然很痛苦地摇头拒绝。于是，美国富豪只好失望地怅然离去。一旁的枢机主教见状，急忙向教皇劝道：“教皇，您何必这么坚决不答应呢？您知道，1亿美元，我们可以盖多少教堂、帮助多少饥饿的穷人、盖多少医院……为什么？”“哎呀，你不知道呀！那美国人要我们以后做弥撒、祈祷结束后，不说‘阿门’，而要改说‘可口可乐’啊！”看来，资本也有失灵的时候，广告时代也有几方净土是无法侵入的。可口可乐的梦想在教皇面前停滞了脚步。然而，在教皇那里碰壁的计划，现在有了新的转机，也许在中国可以得到新的途径。只要可口可乐花足够的本钱，中国的武汉市可以更名为“可口可乐市”。这也许是一个猜想，但是，10月18 日，武汉市政府办公厅宣布将实行地名有偿命名制度。道路、桥梁、广场、住宅等都可以有偿冠名，目的是解决政府资金紧张问题。除非信誉不良的企业、或名称不雅的品牌（武汉领导举例如卫生巾等），其它均可以参加地名拍卖。使用期限为15年至20年。看来人穷志也短，如果可口可乐的美元攻势加大，估计可以顺利将武汉市更名为“可口可乐市”，反正卖开头了，路名能卖，市名也卖个好价钱吧。搞不好可口可乐的老朋友百事可乐也不会示弱，市名没拿到，买个桥名吧，“百事可乐长江大桥，横跨可口可乐市！”叫起来也不差。非常可乐没有两个洋乐那么有钱，但也花小钱买了个蛇山电视塔。但叫起来却气死两个洋乐：“非常可乐塔，是可口可乐市的制高点，矗立于百事可乐桥之首……”如何，小钱也能办大事，这才叫智慧。有可能在给我的一位武汉朋友写信时，会这样写地址：可口可乐市微软区本田大道万宝路脑白金花园（百事可乐桥南非常可乐塔下）。其实“可市”政府还有很多资源可以盘活赚钱，如，每年的人代会、政协会，可以拍卖冠名权：“蒙牛酸酸乳可口可乐市第十届人民代表大会”等。市领导可以出任品牌形象代言人：“黄鹤楼香烟，常委级的享受。”不知道武汉的市民生活的这样的环境中，会有何感想？也许多年以后，有些回忆歌曲已应该这样唱了：“我爷爷小的时候常在这里玩耍，高高的非常可乐塔紧挨着我的家，到后来这座塔，又改名叫了茅台塔，门前的大马路，忘了当年叫个啥……”这样的主意，也亏这些政府官员们想得出。甚至还有些学者，用“帕累托改进”来为这项决定找撤。然而，帕累托改进是指：资源配置处于一般均衡状态，一个人要想改进自己的福利，必以损害他人的福利为前提。如果一个人的福利改善，不必侵害到别人的福利，则说明资源配置存在改善的余地，这样的改变就被称为“帕累托改进”。在此事件中，得益的一方很明确，就是政府。但是，真的没有人因此而受到损害吗？如果这样的措施没有人受损害，教皇为什么不改祈祷用语？损害是显而易见的。一是强行让市民接受广告的侵扰，无法躲避，甚至不得不成为广告的“发布者”，名片、身份证、信件等都在为冠名企业做宣传，但却没有取得相应的对价。电视广告尽管铺天盖地，但最起码中间还能插播点电视剧，老百姓还能得到相应的免费节目补偿。地名成了广告，老百姓能得到什么补偿？二是让某些企业处于不平等地位。试想，如果武汉本地的红金龙烟草公司，地处“万宝路555号”，当做何感想？三是品牌冠名影响了地名的稳定性。企业倒闭了，地名怎么办？品牌出负面新闻了，地名改不改？要知道，目前世界知名的跨国企业，平均寿命才只是11-12年，中国的集团公司，平均寿命7-8年。让老百姓每隔一段时间就重新记一次地名？四是造成社会资源的极大浪费。每次冠名权期限15-20年，就意味着如果每个品牌都平安无事，也必须每隔15-20年就更新一次（你指望企业续约？不可能），那么，相应的资源浪费将是极其惊人的：路标、地图、办公用品、出版物、身份证、档案、计算机数据库、公交线路、标牌……让聪明的政府官员算算看，到底要浪费几十个亿？是不是打算折算到 GDP的增长点中去？典型的劳民伤财式决策，其实武汉并不是第一家，其它城市几年前就开始悄悄地进行，只不过他们的范围较小，影响不大，没有引发公众的关注，但已经尝到了恶果。武汉其实有点冤，“没抓住偷牛的，却暴打拔桩的。”谁让你不学好，专学算折腾的？而且还想发扬光大，大张旗鼓地拍卖，不打你打谁？老百姓其实对这些官员的要求已经不高了：你笨点贪点懒点我们也就忍了，但你别没事找事折腾我们行不？你实在缺钱花，老百姓再多捐点行不？与“懒政”相比，“乱政”可能更可怕。与瞎折腾相比，老百姓宁愿你继续懒下去，拜托了。 收起阅读 »

各位老大,有谁知道东莞的质量工程师在哪里报名考试啊?